Showing posts with label Demi. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Demi. Show all posts

Thursday, June 19, 2014

Demi's Garden Day 16

What a difference just a couple weeks has made! All of the plants have rooted nicely and are pretty happy. I caged the tomatoes (thank you, Mum) and added a small trellis for the cucumbers which will be upgraded once they get bigger. I'm pretty sure the tomato plant in the top left corner has a flower already so we may just hit our 1 tomato goal early! 





And the strawberries have started flowering! My MIL suggested we cover them once they turn into berries to keep the birds away. 

Just a quick update for you all, I hope your summer is starting off as wonderfully as ours is. 

Day 1:

 Day 16:

I am a proud garden mom right now and they haven't even produced a single fruit or veggie!
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Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Sunday, May 4, 2014

Book Review: The Fault in Our Stars (Green)

Hi, friends!  Here's another lovely book review for The Fault in Our Stars by John Green.

Does the story interest you?
Demi: Yes, the movie previews have been out for a while now and Kristin had told us that this book was really good and we had to read it.
Jenn: Sounded like a tear-jerker from the start.  

Were you engaged immediately, or did it take you a while to "get into it"?
D: I was immediately engaged and then totally invested. I finished the book in 24 hours, it was that good.
J: I was engaged from the get-go, the story was constantly unfolding and kept me wanting to know more.

How did you feel reading it—amused, sad, disturbed, confused, bored...?
D: Hearing what the book was about I really braced myself for it to be super sad and a real year jerker which I think made me not as emotionally attached to it. The story is really well told and it was definitely moving but I don't think I more than teared up.
J: I was sad for a lot of it, but it’s written in a way that I wasn’t sobbing through each page.  It was a sweet story.

Did the main characters change by the end of the book? Do they stay the same?
Has this novel changed you—learned something new or broadened your perspective?
D: The main character is actually someone that was based on my philosophy teacher's daughter. Her name was Esther Grace Earl and she inspired John Green in his creation of Hazel Grace. Esther actually named his character before she passed and the book is dedicated to her. When I opened the book and saw her name in there is when I had some real heartfelt tears.
J: The novel really highlights how precious life is.  The characters are all fighting incredible battles, living in completely different worlds than most people, myself included, could even imagine.  The Fault in Our Stars gives you a glimpse of that world and shows you that no matter what your battle is, life (and love) continues moving full speed ahead.

What passages strike you as insightful, amusing, funny, or profound?
D: I really took to heart that a short life can be a good life. Hazel referred to herself as a grenade and refused to let herself get close to Augustus but ended up realizing that no matter how much time you have it can be filled with love.
J: I thought the underlying message was quite profound; it’s written in a way that doesn’t quite tear your heart out, but sends a strong message that, ‘hey, life is short, give it your all’.  

Were you surprised by the plot's complications? Or did you find it predictable, even formulaic?
D: I did not see the twist of Augustus' health deteriorating so quickly and him being the one to pass before the books ending. I also enjoyed the suspense and then the almost real life disappointment with Hazel's favorite author Van Houten, it wasn't nicely wrapped up in a little now which is refreshing.
J:  I was 100% caught off guard with how this book ended!  You really think you have an idea of what’s happening, then BAM! Grab some tissues!

What foods or beverages did you spill on the book during the course of reading it?
D: I'm not sure I even had time to eat while reading this one! I think I read more than half in one sitting.
J: I’m just not very good at eating and reading.

Any part of the book make you stop and think about the people in book club reading it­ did something remind you of them or it was disturbing or risqué and made you wonder how they reacted to it?
D: I couldn't help but think for Kristin and her mom and their battle with cancer and scans and traveling from cells to bones.
J: I read this book before our book club “officially” formed.

Is the ending satisfying? If so, why? If not, why not...and how would you change it?
D: The ending wasn't as much satisfying as it was inspiring. A short life can be a great and full life. We dwell so much on the fact that someone is dying when we could celebrate how much life there is to live.
J:  I can’t say it was satisfying because it was very sad to me, but it couldn’t have been written any other way.  It just couldn’t.

If you could ask the author a question, what would you ask?  Does this book inspire you to read others by the same author?
D: I would love to know how this book has changed his audience and his writing. I haven't read anything from him before but this book has had such a big response that his fan base must be much different than it was a few books ago.
While I devoured this book whole I'm not sure any other would strike me as something I would need to read immediately. He is more of a young adult fiction writer and I'm more of a nonfiction memoir lover. Esther's memoir is next on my list, This Star Won't Go Out.

J: I haven’t actually looked into any of his other novels.  I don’t know a lot about this author, I’d admittedly only heard of the book when the movie was announced.  

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Thursday, May 1, 2014

Currently... (May addition)

Demi is

loving: the changing weather. Hellllooo long walks.
eating: Chipotle, forever craving those salad bowls.
enjoying: This blog! Especially how it keeps me inspired to write and take pictures every day.
wearing: Toms (size 3 in kids, thank you)  I'm late to the game but totally in love.
finishing: up my last semester at Quincy College.
watching: Bob's Burgers and realizing I'm a perfect mix of Linda and Tina. uuuuhhhhh.
laughing: with my husband on the daily, usually right before we fall asleep.
reading: A Long Way Down with Kristin.  Super slow read.
tending: a new garden bed.
looking: forward to baby plants at the end of May.
working: towards a house by working too many jobs! The total is now at 3 jobs while also going to school full-time. 
sewing: a watercolor dress.
planning: A summer of fun before school in the fall brings me back to reality. 
feeling: much better from my unfortunate skiing accident. Almost 100%!
trying: to eat less candy.  Thanks, Easter.
listening: Lana del Ray.  I can never get enough and I can't explain why.
going: to look at houses and feeling like the perfect house is harder to find than I thought. 
becoming: super busy! Working everyday to get us closer to buying a house. It will all pay off in the end. It will all pay off in the end. 
celebrating: my ability to shoot on manual mode with my dslr and feeling confident on how to change the settings. 
trying: to eat less candy. Thanks Easter.



Jenn is
loving: THE SUN!! Oh, how I missed you!
eating: All the strawberries! 
finishing: Some blog updates.
watching: my lab frolicking across the yard.
laughing: at the hilarious "ultrasound photo" attached to this facebook ad: 

reading: The Goldfinch. 
tending: My baby fruit plants.  Two of my strawberry plants grew flowers overnight <3.
wearing: More like *rocking* maternity leggings and a fleece.
listening: N'sync mix on youtube. Not ashamed. 
working: growing babies is hard work :)
sewing: A Tula Pink quilt, Crafty's April Mystery Quilt.  I've gotten so far as to lay out my fabrics.. more updates on that later.
planning: A trip to Anchorage next week.
feeling: Fantastic! I've had two full nights' sleep and haven't thrown up in almost 3 days!
Trying: To concentrate. Not working.  


Kristin is

loving: these cooler temps. Slightly windy, but warm with sunshine.
eatinga kale and sweet potato combo at least once a week. 
watchingLost with S. We’re marathoning all the seasons. 
laughingat myself for spelling “birthday” as “birtday” on Sean’s celebratory banner. 
reading“A Long Way Down” by Nick Hornby. Very, very slowwwwly. 
tending: to the plant seedings Kali is sneakily snacking on in the middle of the night. Bye, basil.
listening:  to Alkaline Trio, muffled, as S works out in the basement to it every other day.
working: on a front yard flower garden and a bee-friendly wildflower garden.
feeling: excited about spring and summer.
wearing: shirts over dresses.
trying: Gelato and loving it. 
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Sunday, April 20, 2014

Book Review: This is Where I Leave You (Tropper)

Hi, friends!  Demi and Jenn just finished reading This is Where I leave You by Jonathan Tropper.  Here's our thoughts:


Does the story interest you?

Jenn: This story was deliciously dramatic from page one, of course it interested me!

Demi: Yes! It was on the list of books to be movies and the title was intriguing. The story was a pleasant surprise considering I knew nothing about it.

Were you engaged immediately, or did it take you a while to "get into it"?

J: I was engaged from the get go, I could not put this book down and read it in its entirety over the course of one weekend (which is pretty rare for me).

D: This was definitely a page-turner, the chapters are short so I found myself saying “one more” and then it was way past my bedtime.

How did you feel reading it—amused, sad, disturbed, confused, bored...?

J: I was amused most of the time, in a sad, disturbing, and confused kind of way… but also  weirdly able to relate to the tone of the overly sarcastic bunch of siblings who all had a pile of their own issues they just didn't feel like outright dealing with. The way in which their deepest insecurities and problems were put on display in a dark-humor kind of way reminded me a lot of some good friends of mine and the relationship we share with one another.

D: I was a mix of emotions, as someone who has been married for just a short amount of time it was hard to read about a marriage ending. The siblings were fun to read about and the drama that ensues is addictive, I found myself recapping each day with my husband like it was happening in real time.

Did the main characters change by the end of the book? Do they stay the same?

J: It's hard to say, as it's left a bit open-ended, but the way things were leaning it doesn't seem like Judd changed all that much. My hope was that things would change for him, that he might pursue a new relationship, pick up the pieces of his broken life and just move forward, but realistically I think he will just scrape up what's left of his old life, desperate for things to be how he thought they once were.

D: If anything I think it made Judd more cynical about life while his relationship with his family got better. I don't think these changes would've happened if they were not forced to sit shiva.

Has this novel changed you—learned something new or broadened your perspective?

J: I wouldn't say it changed me, it was more entertaining than anything. Of course, it made me question what I would do in a similar situation. It also made me grateful for my less-than-dysfunctional family.

D: It has made me aware that there will be obstacles in any marriage and the events that happen before and after it can make or break the relationship. The way they described their reactions to the miscarriage seemed like very real reactions that can tear people apart.

What passages strike you as insightful, amusing, funny, or profound?

J: When Jen tells Judd that she's pregnant and Judd replies with something like, "I hope his baby does better in there than mine did". Ouch!

D: I can’t get the scene where he catches his wife in bed with his boss out of my mind, I'll never see a lit birthday cake the same.... Can you imagine?! My goodness. I really liked his rooftop passages and the interactions he had up there, I could imagine everything he could see. The passages where he talks about falling in love with women as they pass struck me as a little sad, he was just craving attention we all crave. It also makes me think how many times do people fall in love with us from afar, just for a few seconds?

Were you surprised by the plot's complications? Or did you find it predictable, even formulaic?

J: I was pulled in so many different directions throughout this story. I really didn't see a lot of it coming, and the juicy details just kept piling higher and higher. It's written in a way that you can see and understand each character on a personal level, and I really felt like I could see where each of them was coming from.

D: It was definitely NOT formulaic, every turn was unexpected to me. It’s written with very little clues as to what will happen so it’s like you are experiencing it with Judd as he finds out about it. I really liked the format of the book with the days as the chapters and the time stamps for reference.

What foods or beverages did you spill on the book during the course of reading it?

J: I was too busy reading to eat.

D: A nice dollop of guacamole while reading at Chipotle.

Any part of the book make you stop and think about the people in book club reading it- did something remind you of them or it was disturbing or risqué and made you wonder how they reacted to it?

J: I was quite depressed reading about the loss of Judd and his wife's baby. I wondered if anyone else would connect with that as deeply, or if I'm extra emotional being currently pregnant.

 D: Their reaction to the miscarriage was jarring which made me wonder if anyone else wondered what obstacles our marriages will face. I think a lot of my friends are in the happy “I just got married” phase but this book has shown that life will definitely throw us some curve-balls! Also, what would your reactions be to an affair? Would we split friends like they did in the book?

Is the ending satisfying? If so, why? If not, why not...and how would you change it?

J: I guessssss so. I can't say I'd change it but I sure would like to know what direction Judd goes!

D: NO. I know it’s cliche to want a nice little wrapped-up happy ending but this literally ended mid-thought. Maybe they are setting up for a sequel? I, for one, would like to know what the f happens.

If you could ask the author a question, what would you ask? Does this book inspire you to read others by the same author?

J: I actually checked out Tropper's section in the library today to browse his other books. I will definitely be reading more from him in the future.

D: How much of your life is reflected in this novel? I’m curious if his family is similar to Judd’s or perhaps his marriage or job have any ties to the book? They felt so real. I would love to read another one of his books, I really enjoy his writing style.
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Saturday, April 19, 2014

Its time to plant!

...Well, not quite. But it's time to set up the raised bed and start filling it with dirt and mixing it up! My lovely mother-in-law got me two 4x4 cedar raised garden beds for my birthday I can't wait to see what we can grow this year. I have tried to start plants from seeds and it hasn't worked out in the past. There just is not enough sun in the apartment and cats that love to eat anything green and growing. Perhaps when we get a house we can follow Kristin's tips on seed sowing!
I followed instructions on Gardeners.com and their raised bed plans, they're interactive beds that you can customize what kind of bed you have and add plants.
Doesn't that bed look amazing?! That is a 3x6 bed with lots of different veggies. Using their plan as a guide I made this plan.
These are the veggies we buy most at the grocery store so I know we will eat them if they do well. The next step now is to grab the dirt, my mother-in-law suggested we get a mixture of garden soil, peat moss and organic compost. Using this calculator it says I need 10 cubic feet of total soil. The same site suggests:
"For most situations, we recommend these proportions:
  • 60 percent topsoil
  • 30 percent compost
  • 10 percent soilless growing mix that contains peat moss, perlite and/or vermiculite, such as Transplant Mix or Container Mix"
I plan on consulting with my MIL to see what she thinks about my plan, it seems like a lot of plants for just a 4x4 square but the website said that most only need a 1ft square.
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Tuesday, April 8, 2014

Tasty Tuesday: Peach Spritzers

Peach Spritzers

-an easy weeknight drink-

                                                                                   




Smirnoff or Malibu-
Which one is your favorite?


I know its only Tuesday but there's never a better time for a fun, easy and quick adult beverage than on the second day of the work week, amiright? Not in the mood tonight? Grab everything you need next time you're in Target, if you are anything like me you'll be there within a week.


I saw these sparkling sodas on my most recent trip to Target and knew that they would make a perfect fruity drink base. They're pretty sweet on their own so they make great mixers and they have 1/2 cup of fruit per serving as little added bonus. I'm not a fan of super fizzy soda and these have a champagne-like carbonation to them, which is delightful.


Okay so here is what you will need:




Find some cute glasses, a wine glass worked really well for me. This is a great drink to make for yourself because all of the ingredients are either single serving or something you can use for another recipe. Mix one can of soda and one nip then add peaches, easy-peasy! Give them a little stir and enjoy. If you have some other frozen fruit in your freezer I think strawberries or raspberries would make a great addition. 






I was really hoping for some fresh peaches but didn't find any so frozen was the next best thing. I used them as ice cubes and as they melt the drink gets even tastier. AND when you are done with the drink you have a little dessert- best drink ever? Yeah, probably





The verdict?

The taste test included myself, Brendan, my brother, Carlos and his roommate. A 3-to-1 vote determined the drink with Malibu as the clear favorite. I'm not normally a Malibu fan and neither are the boys but this drink is so delicious that it has won me over. I see myself enjoying one of these at the beach this summer, if only the weather would cooperate.

Which one will you be making this weekend? Let us know if you try it! 

Cheers,
❤ Demi
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Sunday, April 6, 2014

Book Review: Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail (Strayed)



Hello all!
The pen pals just finished reading Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail by Cheryl Strayed and here are our reviews!
Does the story interest you?
Demi: I had heard of this book when it first came out but didn't get around to reading until Kristin mentioned she just finished it. Bren and I had just started hiking on the weekends so I was intrigued.
Kristin: Yes! Initially I picked up a copy because my friend Amy had hiked the Appalachian Trail from Georgia all the way to Maine a few years ago - by herself. And I wanted to read another perspective.
Jenn: Absolutely! I love non-fiction first-hand accounts of awesome adventures.  I read Into Thin Air (Krakauer) a few years ago and couldn’t put it down- this story felt the same way.
Were you engaged immediately, or did it take you a while to "get into it"?
D: I was engaged in the prologue! She really captures your attention right away and keeps it throughout the entire book
K: Completely engaged from the get-go. Having lost my own mother just a year ago, I really connected to Cheryl’s deep loss of her mother and the tumultuous feelings she experiences.
J: I felt engaged throughout the entire story.  I liked how the author jumps between past and present to build the story and engage readers with an honest account of who she was, who she became, and the transition in between.  There is a lot in there that most people could relate to.
How did you feel reading it—amused, sad, disturbed, confused, bored...?
D: I was impressed at her strength, grossed out at her toenails falling off and inspired to see the PCT- not to hike it but to see some of the places she visited.
K: I felt like I knew Cheryl, and like I was her at certain points. Although, I wouldn’t have had a saucy one-night-stand with a  stranger on a beach and I really can’t fathom filtering pond water to drink. Instead of sad or amused, I just felt connected to her.
J: Inspired.  When I returned the book, the librarian asked me if it was a good read and I told her it was great, that it made me want to go on a hiking journey.  She smiled and said the greatest books inspire us in that way.
Did the main characters change by the end of the book? Do they stay the same?
D: Cheryl was the only main character and to say she changed was an understatement! She was transformed at a time when she really needed it.
K: I agree with Demi. Cheryl was completely transformed by the end, literally and physically.
J: I think that pieces of old-Cheryl will always shine through, you can see it in her writing and the way she acknowledges the mistakes of her past, but it’s clear that she had grown tremendously.  I got a kick out of the name she chose for herself, post-divorce.  And yeah, I was totally jealous of her post-hike toned body!
Has this novel changed you—learned something new or broadened your perspective?
D: This novel has made me think about how much of our lives we live in our head. It has made me realize that I would never be able to do what she did. I also think about how much I love a hot shower on a daily basis and am grateful I have it.  
K: I was able to realize that deep loss affects others in the same way it has affected me. I’m not the only person who would curl up at her mother’s gravestone and essentially throw a temper tantrum of grief. Reading of her experiences with rationing food, fending off creepy men in the middle of the woods and truly living off the land at some points  made me realize that I definitely could not follow in Cheryl’s footsteps. I consider myself a tough person, but I couldn’t stand to be as alone as she was.
J: I think what’s most inspiring about this story is the realization that if Cheryl Strayed, this mess of a woman with zero experience hiking, can accomplish this amazing feat, I could too.  Hiking the PCT has never been on my bucket list, but hiking part of the Appalachian is.  The longest hike I’ve ever done was two days, and that was incredibly hard! I was so sore the day after that I literally could not walk.  She must have felt this x100, and yet she carried on because, really, why not?  That’s a perspective anyone could take with them in a lot of different situations.
What passages strike you as insightful, amusing, funny, or profound?
D: I loved the "trail angels" I would love to do that one summer, maybe when I retire. I also loved the nicknames the hikers were given
K: There’s a passage where Cheryl describes how her mother’s ashes weren’t what she expected, how she can see dark char burns and pale grey pebbles. I, too, was dumbfounded when I peered at my own mother’s ashes this past summer. I plan to turn them into beads to wear on a necklace. Cheryl describes what is written on the box containing the ashes:

“It said her name and the dates of her birth and death and the sentence she’d spoken to us again and again as 
she got sicker and died: I’m with you always.”

I gasped when I read that because my own mother did the same thing, but throughout her whole life. I literally have, stuck to my computer, a note from her that reads the same: “I’m with you always. Love, Mom.” I lost it when I got to that passage because I felt like there was a reason I was reading this book and perhaps my own Mum was reminding me she’s still there. 

But then Cheryl continues: “I felt like she was with me always, metaphorically at least. And in a way that was literal too. When we’d finally … spread her ashes into the dirt, I hadn’t spread them all. I’d kept a few of the largest chunks in my hands. I’d stood for a long while, not ready to release them to the earth. I didn’t release them. I never ever would. I put her burnt bones in my mouth and swallowed them whole.”

This act of swallowing her mother’s ashes just struck me as so poignant and beautiful. I understood exactly her reasoning for doing that. And I honestly thought to myself, “I can’t believe YOU didn’t think of doing something like that, Kristin!”
J: I must have re-read, “I put her burnt bones in my mouth and swallowed them whole” 3 times.  Initially, I could not figure out if this was literal and was in complete disbelief that it absolutely was.  
Were you surprised by the plot's complications? Or did you find it predictable, even formulaic?
D: I was anticipating the worst but was surprised that she was never in a truly dangerous situation she couldn't get out of. I think a lot of the danger was mental and she overcame some grueling conditions.
K: I wasn’t surprised by any plot complications, just because everything Cheryl encountered was completely unexpected. You couldn’t predict what she would next encounter.
J: There were a few times where I worried for her safety and wellbeing, but most of it just felt realistic to her journey.  It was always in the back of my mind that obviously she made it, as she wrote the book!
What foods or beverages did you spill on the book during the course of reading it?
D: I think I may have left some cookie crumbs in the binding.
K: Tears.
J: Ditto tears! But mine were happy tears on the very last few pages.
Any part of the book make you stop and think about the people in book club reading it- did something remind you of them or it was disturbing or risqué and made you wonder how they reacted to it?
D: Was anyone else expecting something way worse to happen? Every time someone picked her up I thought "this is it, she's getting abducted"
K: I wondered how other readers would react to Cheryl swallowing the ashes. It touched me so deeply because of losing my own mother. But to someone who hasn’t experienced a loss like Chery’s, I wondered if they thought that was gross/weird.
J: I actually thought about Kristin throughout a lot of this book, especially during the pages involving her relationship with her mother and saying goodbye.   
Is the ending satisfying? If so, why? If not, why not...and how would you change it?
D: I thought the end was satisfying, she survived and was changed for the better in the process. I can't wait to see the movie and see what they take and what they leave out.
K: Yes! Definitely satisfying. I am so glad she made it out alive and didin’t have horrible things happen to her. I was definitely worried for her when she encountered strange people. I would have liked Doug to live, though!
J: Loved the ending.  It rounded it a great story, she takes you from the dark place she started at and brings you to a brighter future.  
If you could ask the author a question, what would you ask? Does this book inspire you to read others by the same author?
D: "Would you hike it again knowing what you know now?" "Do you still have Monster?"
K: Did you accomplish what you mentally set out to do? Is Cheryl at the end of the book the Cheryl you hoped to become?

J: I really wonder about her ex husband and if they have maintained a friendly relationship all this time.  

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